ASK NOT
“ Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country” Words made famous by John F. Kennedy during his inaugural in 1961 and later carved in stone at his grave site. Two years later another great American put forth the idea that “content of character” was the proper way to judge someone. Let’s journey back to the Constitution and the phrase “Pursuit of Happiness”. All the above was written by courageous great men who passionately believed in their meaning and the principles of self reliance and personal responsibility. Why do I bring this up? Because there is a cancer sweeping across the United States eroding the American Character. It is so prevalent that many individuals and institutions don’t even know they have it. Say hello to the “Entitlement Mentality” or EM for the remainder of this discussion.
EM (I deserve, I’m owed, it’s my right) is everywhere. It has affected young and old, rich and poor, black and white, both political parties, blue and white collar, Christian, atheist, etc. EM is truly an American affliction although those born elsewhere and then naturalized rarely have it. The only ones that aren’t affected are those Americans that truly believe they are entitled only to the “pursuit of happiness”, that they shouldn’t be asking what the Government can do for them and they should be “judged by the content of their character”.
EM was almost non existent prior to the late 60’s. So what happened?
The obvious reasons are 1. Many Baby Boomers were spoiled by their parents who wanted to make sure their offspring had it better than the generation affected by a depression and world war. That EM was then passed on to the present generation in their twenty’s and thirty’s. 2. Americans have become “fat and happy”. We have way too much and no clue or desire to understand what the rest of the world has. 3. We are bombarded twenty four hours a day with advertisements proclaiming we deserve, we’re owed and if we don’t have it, there is something wrong with us.
To demonstrate how deeply EM is entrenched in our culture, let’s look at some recent history.
Stock Market decline and loss of jobs after 9/11
Financial Security (I deserve it, if I don’t get it, it’s someone’s fault)
Oh no! My NASDAQ account (with all my stocks that don’t pay a dividend and never had earnings.) has crashed - it’s the President’s fault. A few truths about financial and job security. You’re not entitled. The President is not responsible for you getting, keeping or losing your job. You are. U.S. Presidents haven’t had any meaningful influence on the the economy since Roosevelt. The economy runs in cycles, always has, always will. Bush deserves neither blame for the economy of 2001-03, or credit for 04 and 05. This pandering by both political parties to their base only encourages the entitlement mentality. And you’re not entitled to a pension. If you work somewhere and your company’s pension investments haven’t worked out, too bad. It’s not something other taxpayers should subsidize. That’s welfare.
Healthcare.
You’re not entitled. Maybe we should have some type of national health care but good health care starts with the individual. Why should those that take personal responsibility for their health pay higher premiums because of the fast food, alcohol guzzling, tobacco using individuals that are everywhere? This country has so much entitlement on the brain, it’s considered ok to smoke for twenty years and then sue the tobacco companies for bad health. Alcoholism classified as a disease? Polio is a disease; abuse of alcohol is bad character.
New Orleans and Katrina.
Nothing has given more validity to EM and its first cousin IAV (I’m a victim) than the actual events and media coverage of New Orleans. Some hard truths:
•If you could have left before Katrina hit and didn’t you’re not a victim, you’re part of the problem
•If you’ve been engaged in a destructive life style that led to poverty, you’re not a victim
•The City of New Orleans and State of Louisiana had forty years to build proper levees. They didn’t. They are not victims and are not entitled to the American taxpayer playing Santa Claus.
What’s the best way to eradicate EM and IAV in New Orleans? Nothing takes the place of strong leadership. I believe that the majority of those in poverty will make a successful effort to replace destructive personal behavior with self reliance and personal responsibility if they have a roadmap.
Why won’t Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton and other Black leaders go to New Orleans and condemn the personal behavior that keeps the cycle of crippling poverty churning?
•Explain to the women of New Orleans that the government or a man is not the answer to a better life and that having children without a husband is probably going to keep you and your children in poverty forever.
•Condemn the men impregnating women and then leaving them. Label them as the chief architect of our nation’s ghettos
•Label BET and MTV videos as soft porn that portray a very destructive life style.
•Promote the virtues of self reliance and the absence of bad decisions in daily life.
The first step in improving one’s life is to stop any current destructive behavior. It certainly is not to reinforce the belief of EM and IAV. The media frenzy regarding the labeling of those affected by Katrina as victims has no end.
Financial security, Healthcare and New Orleans are just three examples of how the entitlement mentality has become a way of thinking for many Americans. I am not saying that national healthcare or that government aided financial security is a bad thing. Nor that one shouldn’t be helped even if they really aren’t a victim. This is the United States and we help countries all over the world. We should certainly help rescue our own no matter how they got there.
What I’m saying is that an Entitlement Mentality along with the victim card is a very destructive way for individuals and institutions to think. It robs them of creativity and the fruits of self reliance and personal responsibility.
Dooley
1/28/06
“ Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country” Words made famous by John F. Kennedy during his inaugural in 1961 and later carved in stone at his grave site. Two years later another great American put forth the idea that “content of character” was the proper way to judge someone. Let’s journey back to the Constitution and the phrase “Pursuit of Happiness”. All the above was written by courageous great men who passionately believed in their meaning and the principles of self reliance and personal responsibility. Why do I bring this up? Because there is a cancer sweeping across the United States eroding the American Character. It is so prevalent that many individuals and institutions don’t even know they have it. Say hello to the “Entitlement Mentality” or EM for the remainder of this discussion.
EM (I deserve, I’m owed, it’s my right) is everywhere. It has affected young and old, rich and poor, black and white, both political parties, blue and white collar, Christian, atheist, etc. EM is truly an American affliction although those born elsewhere and then naturalized rarely have it. The only ones that aren’t affected are those Americans that truly believe they are entitled only to the “pursuit of happiness”, that they shouldn’t be asking what the Government can do for them and they should be “judged by the content of their character”.
EM was almost non existent prior to the late 60’s. So what happened?
The obvious reasons are 1. Many Baby Boomers were spoiled by their parents who wanted to make sure their offspring had it better than the generation affected by a depression and world war. That EM was then passed on to the present generation in their twenty’s and thirty’s. 2. Americans have become “fat and happy”. We have way too much and no clue or desire to understand what the rest of the world has. 3. We are bombarded twenty four hours a day with advertisements proclaiming we deserve, we’re owed and if we don’t have it, there is something wrong with us.
To demonstrate how deeply EM is entrenched in our culture, let’s look at some recent history.
Stock Market decline and loss of jobs after 9/11
Financial Security (I deserve it, if I don’t get it, it’s someone’s fault)
Oh no! My NASDAQ account (with all my stocks that don’t pay a dividend and never had earnings.) has crashed - it’s the President’s fault. A few truths about financial and job security. You’re not entitled. The President is not responsible for you getting, keeping or losing your job. You are. U.S. Presidents haven’t had any meaningful influence on the the economy since Roosevelt. The economy runs in cycles, always has, always will. Bush deserves neither blame for the economy of 2001-03, or credit for 04 and 05. This pandering by both political parties to their base only encourages the entitlement mentality. And you’re not entitled to a pension. If you work somewhere and your company’s pension investments haven’t worked out, too bad. It’s not something other taxpayers should subsidize. That’s welfare.
Healthcare.
You’re not entitled. Maybe we should have some type of national health care but good health care starts with the individual. Why should those that take personal responsibility for their health pay higher premiums because of the fast food, alcohol guzzling, tobacco using individuals that are everywhere? This country has so much entitlement on the brain, it’s considered ok to smoke for twenty years and then sue the tobacco companies for bad health. Alcoholism classified as a disease? Polio is a disease; abuse of alcohol is bad character.
New Orleans and Katrina.
Nothing has given more validity to EM and its first cousin IAV (I’m a victim) than the actual events and media coverage of New Orleans. Some hard truths:
•If you could have left before Katrina hit and didn’t you’re not a victim, you’re part of the problem
•If you’ve been engaged in a destructive life style that led to poverty, you’re not a victim
•The City of New Orleans and State of Louisiana had forty years to build proper levees. They didn’t. They are not victims and are not entitled to the American taxpayer playing Santa Claus.
What’s the best way to eradicate EM and IAV in New Orleans? Nothing takes the place of strong leadership. I believe that the majority of those in poverty will make a successful effort to replace destructive personal behavior with self reliance and personal responsibility if they have a roadmap.
Why won’t Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton and other Black leaders go to New Orleans and condemn the personal behavior that keeps the cycle of crippling poverty churning?
•Explain to the women of New Orleans that the government or a man is not the answer to a better life and that having children without a husband is probably going to keep you and your children in poverty forever.
•Condemn the men impregnating women and then leaving them. Label them as the chief architect of our nation’s ghettos
•Label BET and MTV videos as soft porn that portray a very destructive life style.
•Promote the virtues of self reliance and the absence of bad decisions in daily life.
The first step in improving one’s life is to stop any current destructive behavior. It certainly is not to reinforce the belief of EM and IAV. The media frenzy regarding the labeling of those affected by Katrina as victims has no end.
Financial security, Healthcare and New Orleans are just three examples of how the entitlement mentality has become a way of thinking for many Americans. I am not saying that national healthcare or that government aided financial security is a bad thing. Nor that one shouldn’t be helped even if they really aren’t a victim. This is the United States and we help countries all over the world. We should certainly help rescue our own no matter how they got there.
What I’m saying is that an Entitlement Mentality along with the victim card is a very destructive way for individuals and institutions to think. It robs them of creativity and the fruits of self reliance and personal responsibility.
Dooley
1/28/06
